Another P-day, Another Nap

I am here in Bocaue for 6 more weeks.

Things went well last week. Except for Niko. Niko was solidly progressing to baptism and was supposed to be baptized on the 23^rd, until he moved out of our area. We don’t know where his new house is. There isn’t a lot more we can do.

      

We have a few more investigators that are solidly progressing. Aiko Participated in the Young Women’s program at church on Sunday, so she is good. Roni needs his aunt to go to church with him so he can be baptized. Brother JR needs a specific date so he can have a goal. And we have a few who need a little help on their way.

      

Right now, we are just trying to teach all the people from the friends and families of the ward. We have gotten good support from all of them.

       

We don’t get nearly enough sleep.

I have some friends going on missions namely Kas and Emma, #shoutout.

Culture: If foreigners cook Filipino food here, they are immediately adopted into the culture. Make Filipino food and tell people all about it.

Tagalesson: As you use a word more, you start to hear it more. Elder Bromley learned the saying "O nga eh". He started using it a lot and now is hearing Filipinos saying it. "Onga eh" is like saying "I know, right?!" But can be in so used in many different ways.

Love you all! Sorry time is short this week. I spent too much time on other things than this email.

Love

Elder Faulkner

Diego on the A Team

Welp everyone, welcome back to my life.

       

This week is much like last week, but different. We did fun things and we had good lessons. I am starting to really like this area and the people here. We have seen a lot of progress but we are really trying to help people make it to church still.

       

One thing I have learned: people have an amazingly hard time getting to church if they don’t have support of the members. It is difficult for someone to build up the faith to go to church if they don’t have the consistent support of another person right by their side.

       

We have a couple people in our teaching pool that haven’t made it to church because they don’t know any members. We are trying to find a way around this problem.

        

Other than that, we have been encouraged in our area: we have been gaining back the trust of the members in this ward and been working with them. We had a really cool experience where we helped reactivate someone who had not been to church for a solid year. When people saw her back, they came to us and were so excited. We have a plan to bring that less active with a couple active member families to do scripture study, along with her grandchildren that have not been baptized yet. Hopefully we will see that whole family make it back to church, but a lot of her children have been out of the church for around 20 years, so we may find it difficult to get everyone back to church.

      

Hopefully, as we get more experiences like that – we will be able to get a lot more people back to church. We are really trying to change the way we work through members. If we always get them to bring friends to church, we never have to worry about investigators that don’t have a support system.

       

Right now, we are preparing for Christmas. We are teaching a lot, but we are also not letting up on our finding. We want a lot of people that have potential to be baptized in our teaching pool. Even if I leave and don’t see all of those people get baptized, I want it to be easier on Elder Bromley to continue on.

       

Culture: All you eat is bread. Filipinos have this thing where they think all Americans just eat bread. When they ask what your favorite Filipino food is, and you don’t answer fast enough, they will say: "Oh yeah they just eat bread in America."

       

Tagalesson: Explaining an action that someone else was involved in. I realized that this is super hard to say in English, but it is really simple in Tagalog. When you want to explain an action you did with someone you just add "Ni" and their name.

"Nagplanning kami ni Elder Bromley" = "We planned (me and Elder Bromley)"

There is no good way to describe this, you just have to know this is how it works. Good luck po.

Alrighty nice work bois.

I will see you again next week.

#nopicturesagain.

Love

Elder Faulkner

Bromley in Bocaue

It is looking like a white Christmas here in the Philippines. We are currently preparing many people for baptism we have been helping these people progress, and trying to get them to church. We are planning for 8 baptisms in the month of December. Obviously, we aren't completely sure how things are going to go in the future weeks. We have been really focusing on baptism and pushing our people forward. We have created a good teaching pool that shouldn't have any major problems, or we have mostly moved past their problems. It is amazing how the work changes when you get two people who just want to put everything into to the work.

       

That is one thing about Elder Bromley, no matter how much he might struggle – he is amazing in encouragement. I can always rely on him to make the right decision when we need to know what to do next. He always has a good attitude about the work. Even tho we get down sometimes, he is super reliable. I have probably seen more miracles with him in this last 2 weeks than I have in whole transfers. Every single day is filled with great lessons that are impactful and led by the spirit.

         

Life here is pretty good. I like it.

I hope you are all doing good work back at home. I will be home in like a year – so start getting ready now. But I won’t think about that for a long while.

        

We have actually had a lot of people come across us and say: "Hey I know about the missionaries; can I be baptized?" Hopefully we will see that desire develop into faith and into change. And then we will see the fruit of that change. One of the coolest of all of these experiences is a girl named Aceline. She is a member. She has been talking with her fiancé about religion – explaining the importance of knowing truth for yourself. Having her in lessons has helped him really understand what will take place in his life through baptism and marriage in the temple.

       

That is only one of the experiences from the last 2 weeks that have been really good for us and for the ward. We have seen great change in the area. I love it.

       

Culture: Tagalog humor. Tagalog humor works in the way they describe things. They find it funny to point out differences in people. We get a lot of people that say thing like "ang puti mo" = "you are super white" and the like. People here think that is hilarious. It is very different from the American humor that I am used too.

      

Tagalesson: Ways to ask for a minute or for someone to wait.

“Teka lang” – “wait-lang” – “sandali lang” – “dali lang” – “Saglit lang” – “hintay lang”. All these can be used to tell someone that you need an extra minute, they use them almost interchangeably.

Welp there you go everyone, keep up the good stuff. Email me if you get the chance.

Get ready for Christmas and Thanksgiving. There really isn’t Thanksgiving here, so we wont have it – but you all will.

Love

Elder Faulkner

This makes number 3.

Normally in one missionary area you only have 2 companions, one when you come in and then another before you leave. This is generally the way that things work out. I got a new companion this week his name is Elder Bromley, the thing about Elder Bromley is that he never stops smiling. It is really fun to work with him because he is almost always laughing, regardless of the situation. Elder Bromley replaced Elder Eccles on this last Thursday and we have working very hard in this area to see the improvement in the ward and our investigators. We have started keeping audio recordings of our days. When we get back home, we take an audio recording of all the things we remember from the day and what we really liked.

     

Today we had temple P-day. This is the first time I have been to the temple for almost a year. We had to get up very early and have been very tired today. All in all, it has been a super heavy week. I need a solid nap, but I might not get it. In this last week, we extended 4 dates for baptism in the month of December. That means that if everything goes as it should, we should have at least that many baptisms. But, there are others that we are really trying to help prepare themselves for baptism. I thought a decent amount about covenants today. God makes a promise to us and we choose to rise to the occasion, or to not follow his standards. For some people, baptism is too difficult; it requires a change that they are not yet ready for. Our covenants with Jesus Christ are about showing how ready we are to change and to become just like him. Covenants are an important way to improve in many ways in our lives.

      

The Moseros family dropped us.

      

Brother Mendoza really wants to be baptized but isn’t really ready, daw.

     

We extended a baptisimal date in the first lesson that was accepted, but it was to a 14-year-old without her parents there, Elder Bromley kinda jumped the gun on that one.

      

We are working with the ward and fixing what the past missionaries have done wrong.

      

The area is fun, it hasn’t had a baptism in 8 months and we plan for 8 baptisms in December.

      

Elder Bromley struggles with the language quite a lot but nothing we can’t fix

      

Life is pretty solid.

Culture: People hate saying things straight up. Here there is a lot of "beating around the bush". Sometimes they will never tell you what the actual problem is. Asking specific questions can get you a good idea about what the real problem is, but it takes a lot of practice. Sometimes you really have to work a problem out of them and sometimes you just have to let it sit. For the example with the Moseros family: the mom wouldn’t tell us why they didn’t want us to come inside. She said that she was busy; we asked a lot of questions and got the idea of what might actually be going on with the family. You get a lot in the way people act around you once you work with people so much. As a missionary, part of the job is to understand people.

       

Tagalesson: The word "Naman". The word Naman has no English translation and cannot really be said to be any specific word. It can be used in a variety of ways that change based on the situation. I like this word because it is used as assurance. If you say "Hindi naman" it is like "not really" instead of just "no" You can use it in many ways and it is a very interesting word that can carry a lot of meaning or hardly any at all. I really like this word, but good luck figuring it out.

          

I don’t really know what the next few weeks are looking like but I am excited.

      

Keep up the good work and thanks for all the emails this week. Although sometimes the replies are kinda short I love seeing what you all took the time to write to me.

       

Love

Elder Faulkner